Austin Hall
Mrs. Isenkul
Univ 150
Dec. 5, 2014
College Transition
Transitions are milestones in my life, especially from high school to college! There are plenty of transitions that happen between high school and college that can be listed all day. A few examples are being away from home, family and friends.
Having the social skills of making new friends is not so easily achieved for everyone, especially if you’re shy or have trouble making friends. New changes in the environment is also a major factor. In your household, you may have a nice size room that fits your belongings and is set up the way you like it. However, in college you have to share small room with someone you may or may not know. Some dorms/ rooms are not so appealing but the way to handle that situation is try become comfortable with your roommate and your room.
What is home? Some people say home is what you think it is, other people think home is where they are born and raised. College can be hard to get used to, especially if you haven’t been anywhere and you’re just use to where you live. Homesickness can be a very serious and hard thing to get over. It can cause depression and many other things, some parents don’t prepare their kids for college because they are strict and they don’t really let their kids do anything. So when they get to college they don’t know what to do without their parents.
Being away from family is different, when you’ve been with them your whole life. Knowing you won’t see them for a while and if you’re far away from home you only can come home during breaks. That come back to being homesick and when you get home sick you sometimes just sit around college not wanting to be bothered. This can make college really stressful, because research shows that the people who show the most school spirit and get involved in school activities are the ones that do the best. When you were in trouble back home you always had someone to run to. Most of the time your family helped you get out of situations and when you’re in college things can happen and you have to deal with things on your own. You have to use what your parents taught you in your childhood to make good decisions and get yourself on the right path.
Leaving friends is another thing that can be hurtful or stressful moving to college. Friends are hard to come by this time period so when you have friends that you grow up with your whole life and you’re leaving them it’s hard. Without friends in college it could be a bad year. Some people don’t like starting over because some people are scared of change and what the future holds for them. Staying in the past is just better for some people, because they are comfortable where they are in life they already have .
In conclusion, transition is a big part of life. High school doesn’t prepare you for college so transition is harder, especially when you haven’t been on your own or your parents did everything for you.